My submissive caller was one who had called once before. It seemed that he was kept in long distance chastity by another Mistress. Once in a great while, on her whim, he was allowed to take off his chastity device and to call another phone sex Mistress.  The Mistress in question, like myself, would be skilled in tease and denial. I would, during the course of the call, get my little caller incredibly excited, and then I would decide if I wanted to let him cum or not.

My caller was on a chair with one hand hand-cuffed. The other hand left free to stroke. The key was buried in an ice block that would take hours to thaw. Once I toyed with him for a while, I could decide if I wanted to let him cum, or if I wanted him to hand-cuff his stroking hand.

Lady Sascha is a Cock Tease Mistress

Twice he has called me now. Twice I have teased him, gotten him so hard he was about to explode. Twice I have denied him. Both times he ended up crying out of frustration while I was laughing at him.

Perhaps if he calls me a third time? Well who knows? They do say the third time’s the charm…

Are you into tease and denial? If so you can give me a call.

I just wanted to say thanks for all the Holiday presents and good wishes all my phonesex callers have sent me over the last month. It’s been a very busy month! I’ve taken domination calls on a limited basis only, as my own little submissive pet has been taking a lot of vacation time with me this last month.

Lady Sascha is Glad to be Back Home

But now it is time to get into the swing of the New Year, and start teasing and denying and torturing more submissive ass… And I am looking forward to it.

Hope to hear from you soon!

It seems that I was in such a hurry to pack for San Francisco I totally forgot to hit “publish” in WordPress and so only I could see the post. But I am back now, and taking calls – I will talk a bit more about my trip in a future post.

So anyway, here is the post I wrote last week before leaving. And yes I did do a lot of tease and denial with my pet and also strange men. And yes I did cuckold my pet.. Oh and I bought a sweet little strapless cocktail dress in a vintage store, and I will model it with some seamed stockings for some hot little pics soon =)

To all my little phone sex pets:

I am leaving tonight on a plane to San Francisco with my own real life submissive. We’re planning on driving up and down the coast for a couple of days and visiting the Napa Valley as well as the Sonoma Wine country – taste testing our way through the region =)

I should be back taking calls by Tuesday at the latest – my pet was given a few days off unexpectedly and so he has a buddy that’s flying us down there and back.

Of course I will be wearing little sundresses, and shorts that show off my legs, and we’ll be in the water a lot as well, so I’ll be wearing a little swimsuit..

Lady Sascha in a Swimsuit

I will return tanned and rested, and full of naughty stories of how I teased and denied men in nightclubs, men by the pool, men on wine tours..

And if I find the right man, I might even do a bit of cuckolding with my pet..

Until next week..

• Digging my long fingernails into them
• Scratching them with my fingernails
• Running the Wartenburg wheel over them,
• Writing I <3 Sascha on them with a Bic pen
• Dripping hot candle wax on them
• Harding the wax with the bag of frozen peas
• Flogging the hardened wax off with My flogger
• And alternately – licking on those balls, running my silky tongue around and around them, sucking them into my mouth, sucking your cock…Until you are about to explode. But of course you may not cum until I say…

I love how I am so easily able to control horny men half-way around the world!

Enjoy giving a Dominant Female that type of control?

Then feel free to give me a call or email me at ladysascha@gmail.com for an appointment.

This blog post, like every other post on Cocktease Mistress, are my opinions only, and based on my experiences from real life BDSM and from phone domination. I do not profess myself to be an expert in BDSM or D/s. In other words, your mileage may vary =)

I look at a lot of other phone dommes’ sites and ads. Some of those sites that  profess to be Domination-based really kind of amaze me.

These are the women who are all about flouncing around, shrieking at subs, stomping their feet, and braying “It’s all about ME!!!” In other words, 19-going-on-5 years of age with a bad case of spoilt brat. In fact a lot of these ladies even call themselves “brats”.

That’s all well and good, and if that is what you as a phone sex caller get into, go for it. It’s all about amusement value as far as phone sex goes, right? And whatever gets you off.

But it’s not Domination, at least not in my opinion.

Domination is about control. These “brats” can’t even control themselves, much less anyone else.

Domination is about getting into a submissive’s head, inside his or her brain. It’s about gaining their trust, even when they don’t normally trust people. It’s about understanding what makes them tick and using that to push their limits. It’s about allowing a submissive to worship me to the point he’ll do whatever I like.

It’s about making something that is actually pretty hard look almost effortless =)

Domination and submission compose a symbiotic relationship. It’s not about one or the other, but about both. It can be a relationship formed of respect and mutual trust, and one that caters to both the Dominant’s and the submissive’s needs.

I do not raise my voice or lose my temper. I don’t have to. I rarely even have to order a submissive to do something – unless his head is in the place he needs that.. And if I do it, is in a tone that commands respects and harbors no backtalk.

As in just. do. it. now.

Even when I have a submissive in bondage – his hard balls in my hands – even when I have been torturing and edging him for hours, and he looks into my eyes and sees that cold fire inside my head – even when he sees no sympathy for his pain or frustration – even then, I am giving him what he needs.. and in the end, we both know on the other side of that pain, that frustration, is a euphoria that someone who is not into BDSM just doesn’t get.

To me that is what Domination is about… seeing what a submissive needs, and giving it to him. Helping him to that other side of the pain, the frustration, helping him to achieve that euphoric reward.

Just like dancing pet, who at my bidding, sent me a nice little money shot:

Dancing Pet Sends Me a Money Shot

BTW, thank you for that very sweet and heart-felt post you wrote, dancing pet, I do appreciate it

And so to my readers, and possible long-distance subs:

If you like, you can call me and see if I am the right Dominatrix for you. If not, that is fine.

Or you may prefer a stomping screaming spoilt brat who never quite made it past the terrible two’s.

And that is fine too =)